It's okay to take a moment for yourself and recharge.

I've seen quite a few posts lately where moms have said that they love their kids but they don't like being a mom. Let's be honest, motherhood is hard, and on your worst day, you may be thinking the same but dare not utter it. For some, that statement may seem harsh, but I don't think we talk enough about the realities of motherhood.
Motherhood is a self-sacrificing, delayed gratification role. It requires patience, constant prayer, generosity, hope, love, self-control, and determination, to name a few. These characteristics sound a lot like the fruit of the Spirit.
Motherhood demands a constant pouring out but also needs refueling. Refueling looks like quiet time, withdrawing from family and work, a secluding of oneself. It is not selfish or inconsiderate; it is vital. Jesus often found himself withdrawing or going to desolate places after he had taught, healed, and delivered others (Luke 4:42; 5:16). As mothers, we need to remind ourselves of this and do the same. In order for us to show up for everyone else at our best, we have to first show up for ourselves.
Acknowledging the challenges of motherhood does not make anyone a bad mother; it makes them honest. This honesty is crucial for maintaining mental health and overall well-being. The societal pressure to be the perfect mom can be overwhelming, but recognizing that it's okay to seek help and take breaks can make a significant difference. Finding joy in small moments, seeking support from fellow moms, and prioritizing self-care can help balance the demands of motherhood.
Additionally, it's important to celebrate the successes and cherish the unique bond between mother and child. Despite the hardships, the love and connection that develop through shared experiences are irreplaceable. Embracing both the joys and struggles of motherhood allows for a more authentic and fulfilling experience. So, take a moment for yourself, recharge, and remember that doing so is an essential part of being the best mother you can be.
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